I’m saying this with a whole lot of love… here is some homeschool advice I would give you if I were not concerned about hurting your feelings.
You don’t need a color-coded schedule.
You don’t need a Pinterest-perfect home.
And you definitely don’t need a to-do list that’s five pages long to be a great homeschool mom.
What you do need?
Flexibility.
A heart that’s willing to learn alongside your kids.
And the courage to let go of what’s not serving your family.
Take what helps. Leave what doesn’t. No guilt needed.
- You are the expert on your child. Trust that.
- Stop trying to recreate the public school system at home—it didn’t work there either.
- You don’t have to explain or defend your homeschool choices to anyone.
- If a curriculum makes you cry, it’s the wrong one.
- If your children don’t enjoy reading, try something different. Maybe it’s audiobooks. Maybe it’s snuggling and reading aloud. Chapter books aren’t the only way.
- Your peace matters more than any planner or lesson plan.
- Stop comparing your homeschool to influencers with picture-perfect lives (and no toddlers hanging off their legs).
- If you’re buying new curriculum just to feel like you’re in control, it might be time to step back and breathe.
- Just because it’s printed in a book doesn’t mean it has to be taught right now.
- Field trips count. So does laying in the grass and wondering about the clouds God made.
- Homeschooling is about making space for joy.
- There’s no such thing as “behind.” That’s a public school mindset—not a real life one.
- If something isn’t working, it’s not that you’re failing—it’s likely it is just not the right fit for your child.
- And remember: your child’s well-being matters far more than anyone’s opinion of your homeschool.
You’ve got this. With God’s help, you are more than equipped.
More Advice from One Mama to Another (With Love):
• There will be hard days. That doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong—it just means you’re doing something that matters.
• Not every day needs to be productive. Some days are for connection, healing, rest, and remembering why you chose this path.
• The fruit comes later. You might not see it today, or even this year—but seeds planted in love will grow.
• You’re not behind—you’re being faithful. Progress doesn’t always look like test scores or finished worksheets.
• Let your homeschool reflect your values, not your fears. Teach from a place of peace, not panic.
• You can’t teach from an empty cup. Prioritize your own health, faith, and rest without guilt—it blesses your whole family.
• Character over curriculum. Who your children are becoming is more important than what they’re achieving.
• Laughter is part of learning. So are messes, rabbit trails, and unfinished science projects.
• You’re allowed to change your mind. About the schedule, the curriculum, or the rhythm of your year. Pivoting is wisdom, not failure.
• Jesus fills the gaps. You will never be a perfect teacher—but He is a perfect Shepherd. Invite Him into your homeschool.
Here is a back-to-homeschool free Homeschool Prep Pack just to get you started – and to keep things super simple:
📥 Download your Prep Pack Here: https://www.homeschools.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/Homeschool-Prep-Pack.pdf
Inside you’ll find:
- A Weekly Lesson Planner
- Daily Schedule template
- Student Goal Sheet
- Scripture Memory Tracker
- First Day of School Poster
- And some encouragement just for you!
You’re doing eternal work—thank you for the time and love you pour into your children.
“Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” — Proverbs 16:3
Here at Christian Liberty Homeschools, we offer you the privilege of homeschooling your children. With CLH you, the parent, have total control over what your child interacts with academically, culturally, historically, media-wise, and spiritually! We are here to support you at: www.homeschools.org and www.christianliberty.com